Kwa iwo omwe amadziwira okha kuti kugonana ndi chiyani, nthawi yomweyo zimawonekeratu kuti ndi negro ya minofu, yomwe ili ndi thunthu lalikulu, imatha kukhutiritsa atsikana awiriwa. Kwa munthu woyera wokhala ndi kukula kwapakati, malo oterowo omwe Negro adawotcha sangawalepheretse.
Kusisita pakamwa nthawi zonse kumapangitsa kugonana kukhala kosangalatsa. Anthu ambiri amawaopa kapena amawaona ngati chinthu chochititsa manyazi. Koma muyenera kuyang'ana mtsikanayo ndikuzindikira kuti njira ina yopezera chisangalalo chake sichinapangidwe. Inde, ziri kwa aliyense. Koma ndinadzisankhira. Ndipo kumwetulira kwansangala kwa mnzanga kumandiuza kuti sindinalakwe posankha ma caress.